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How to write a matrimonial profile that gets replies

By Sanjog Darpan team · Published 26 September 2026

Members who complete every section of their profile and add at least two recent photos receive far more interests than members with a bare profile. It is not about writing a lot; it is about being specific and honest.

About me: three short paragraphs

  1. Who you are today. Your work, where you live, what a normal week looks like.
  2. What matters to you. Family, faith, food, travel, fitness: pick the two or three things that actually shape your life.
  3. What you are looking for. Describe the relationship, not a checklist of the other person.

Example: "I am a physiotherapist in Pune and I run a small clinic with my sister. Sundays are for my parents and a long walk. I am looking for someone who enjoys a quiet home life and is open to living close to family."

Photos

  • Use the crop and enhance tools on the Photos page; a bright, straight, close-up first photo works best.
  • Two or three photos: one close-up, one full-length, one doing something you enjoy.
  • No group photos, no sunglasses, no heavy filters. Photos are reviewed before they appear.

Interests

Tick your interests honestly. Members who share your interests are shown first in your matches, and the reason is displayed on the card ("Shares Travel, Music"), so this is the fastest way to find people you will actually enjoy talking to.

Partner preferences

Mark only true deal-breakers as "must have". Everything else becomes a flexible preference that improves ranking without hiding profiles you might like.